This is a heartfelt reflection about the world of sex wolrkers…
To you. The man who enjoys the company of ladies like me. Sometimes as a respite from your hectic life. Sometimes just because you need a release. Perhaps single, or in a casual relationship, or in a long-term marriage. If it feels so good to be with me, it’s because I’m fully present and give you the very best of my energy, regardless of your circumstances. You get to see me at my most vulnerable. And don’t be misguided. You rent my soul, not just my body. Yes, I’ve chosen this work. I know what I’m doing. Each time I see you, I know where I stand. And I have protection mechanisms to keep my heart intact.
When I read your cold words about my companion friends. Over and over and over again. When you harshly judge her body as if reviewing an app or a car. When your mental tape measure says her waist is an inch too wide to be attractive. That her stretch marks make her repulsive. That her behind isn’t firm enough in your worn out hands. That she’s not worth what she charges. I feel for all of us.
Do you not understand that you didn’t hire the services of a lifeless doll? Surely you have the intelligence to know the difference. It takes an incredible amount of courage to be a companion. At any age. Regardless of our looks. It is not a job that only lazy women choose. Most of us love it, but it isn’t easy. No matter how much financial success it may bring us. It is something we can do to earn a living no matter what our personal circumstances look like. You should try it for a while. The money you give your companion doesn’t imply you have carte blanche in how you treat her - in person or online. You don’t know the impact it can have on her. You want her to be real, fun, healthy, engaging, uninhibited, charming, well-mannered, caring, capable, talented, energized, flirty, bubbly, kind. You want her to enjoy being with you. How is this possible if you see her with so little consideration? I beg you to expand your mind and see her as an imperfect human, just like you are. And if you don’t enjoy your time with her, simply don’t see her again.
Stay classy. Stay human. Don’t try to steal her light. You will gain nothing by doing so.
Written by Max Chabanel // Originally published on Twitter/X March 29, 2025
Photo by Patrick Droog
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